CurrentReport Blog In a bold statement that has set social media abuzz, former Big Brother Naija winner, Josephine Ijeoma Otabor, popularly known as Phyna, advised single women not to settle for financially struggling men.
Taking to her X (formerly Twitter) account, Phyna shared her thoughts on the importance of financial stability in relationships. She tweeted, “Las las marry who get money oooh Or you try get money ooooh as a woman. E get why. (Ready for the drags).”
Phyna’s comment has ignited a heated discussion online, with reactions pouring in from all corners. While some have applauded her for emphasizing financial independence and security, others have criticized her for what they perceive as “insensitive” and materialistic advice.
The reality star’s post has divided opinions, with many netizens expressing their discontent. Critics argue that her message could perpetuate unrealistic expectations and undermine the value of love and mutual support in relationships. Conversely, supporters believe Phyna is highlighting a pragmatic approach to modern relationships, where financial stability plays a crucial role.
Phyna’s stance reflects a broader conversation happening across Nigeria and beyond, as societal norms around marriage and financial expectations continue to evolve. Her provocative message encourages women to prioritize their financial well-being, whether by choosing a wealthy partner or by striving to achieve financial independence themselves.
The reality star’s candid advice has undoubtedly sparked a necessary dialogue about the role of money in relationships, and whether love alone is sufficient to sustain a partnership in today’s world.
