CURRENT REPORT BLOG In a recent viral video shared by Nollywood actress Favour Nwachukwu, the star found herself at the center of controversy after going on her knees to receive an engagement ring from her fiancé. While the gesture was intended as a show of appreciation, it sparked a heated debate among netizens, with many questioning traditional gender roles in engagements.
The video captured the heartfelt moment when Nwachukwu’s partner proposed to her, a milestone celebrated by many couples. However, just before he could place the ring on her finger, Nwachukwu surprised onlookers by dropping to her knees in a gesture of gratitude. While some viewers applauded her display of humility and appreciation, others voiced their disapproval, arguing that it should have been the man who knelt during the proposal.
The criticism directed at Nwachukwu highlights the deeply ingrained societal expectations surrounding engagements and marriage ceremonies. Traditionally, it has been customary for the man to kneel when proposing, symbolizing his commitment and respect for his partner. Nwachukwu’s decision to reverse this role challenges these long-standing norms and opens up discussions about gender equality and empowerment in romantic relationships.
Bellow are some of the comments she received:
Araoluwa, “Sisterhood is not proud of you oh baby girl, you can kneel down afterwards but you let him ask you in a proper way but what do I know.”
Mikki, “What kind of unbalanced proposal is this. Nah, I will pass.”
Sarah Martins, “All I see a good, respectful, submissive, reserved woman. Abeg you can kneel for your man however you want. Nobody has the right to tell you how to treat your man. I like.”
Monarch, “To think that she stylishly kneeled down. He already gave her conditions for proposal Onitsha men and pride. Importer and exporter.”
Mr Obiter, “Anambra men and ego, smh, why must she kneel. She’s accepting you not the other way round. All these Onitsha main market boys.”
Kung_teelove, “Very respectful lady, she will enjoy her home.”
Nicki, “Don’t start what you can’t finish.”
Favour, “This is not love dont be deceived.”
Lily, “May my heels break, the moment I try to kneel.